

We explained to them that “my husband is in the US Army, I
am his wife. He is stationed in Germany and that is why I live there with him.”
They asked us for a copy of his orders… uhh who carries orders with them on
vacation? We sure don’t. We told them the only thing we had was a leave form
from my husbands office. They took that and agreed it was fine to prove that my
husband was stationed in Germany but that I needed a leave form for myself. I
know I gave them plenty of blank stares. We told them again, “I’m married to
him (as I’m pointing) which allows me to live with him in Germany. They kept
saying “then you need military orders or a leave form.” I said again “I’m
married to him, I’m not in the military so I don’t need a leave form.” By this
point I was getting very frustrated because they just weren’t understanding. I
finally showed them my no-fee passport that has the SOFA stamp in it to prove
that I’m most definitely here legally. So they took all of our passports,
military ID’s and leave form and closed the door on us. We waited and waited
and when he came back he still wasn’t happy with that. They finally called
someone, we don’t really know who, but we think maybe someone from the US
embassy to figure it all out. He finally told us that on that leave form there
is a section at the bottom for dependants and my name was NOT in that box. I
doubt that would have solved the problem much faster but make sure you have ALL
dependants listed on the leave form when traveling. All of that took about 45
minutes to get resolved. So for future reference always have your tourist and
no-fee passport, leave forms filled out 100% AND copies of orders with you when
flying. The
reason I didn't show my no-fee passport right away is because my travel
passport is in my maiden name and my no-fee in my married name. I
didn't want to make the situation worse/more confusing so I held out as
long as I could before having to explain that. I thought once I showed
that they'd have all kinds of problems with me having 2 passports with
different names but they didn't care at all about the name difference.
We didn’t have any other problems flying out of Dublin or Edinburgh and I’m sure many, many people have flown out of Germany with no problems but I happened to get stuck with the guy who actually did his job the right way. My husband doesn’t have a stamp in his passport either but his guy didn’t check. So it’s always better to be safe than sorry. If my husband wasn’t with me they probably would not have let me through. I’m not sure how to fix that problem because if I was traveling with a friend and we didn’t have a leave form it could have been a nightmare!
EDIT: This post is getting a TON of views! I'm seeing a lot of questions about why all this information is needed and what to do if you're traveling alone. If you are not related to the military and want to stay in Germany longer than 90 days you have to have a visa. When you are military and arrive in Germany you don't get a German stamp in your passport. That stamp proves when you got here so officials know when your 90 days is up. Since military can obviously stay longer than 90 days we're supposed to have a visa. The military version of a visa is the SOFA stamp in your no-fee passport. The no-fee passport is only for official use, to and from the States. You are technically not supposed to travel with your no-fee BUT you should always have it on you since it is your version of a visa. When I was in Prague they were not understanding that my no-fee passport was my visa and that is why you need a copy of the soldiers orders to prove that you're stationed in Germany. Make sure those orders have ALL family members on it. I know a lot of families get orders with just the soldier on it and once they're command sponsored they get a revised version with dependents. Soldiers don't have a no-fee passport because their CAC card is their version of a visa. If you feel that will cause problems it is possible to get a no-fee passport for the soldier. I don't think it's 100% necessary to have a leave form with you but it definitely wouldn't hurt. Another problem many wives could come across is having 2 passports with different names, maiden and married. If this is the case then you should also travel with a copy of your marriage license. I know this seems so silly and a little annoying to have to remember all this but all these papers will help clear up any problems you may encounter. When traveling alone or without the soldier you definitely need to have a copy of the soldiers orders. A marriage license in this case would probably be helpful too to prove that you're married to the name on the orders. Just be prepared and patient with those in other countries who may not understand.
We didn’t have any other problems flying out of Dublin or Edinburgh and I’m sure many, many people have flown out of Germany with no problems but I happened to get stuck with the guy who actually did his job the right way. My husband doesn’t have a stamp in his passport either but his guy didn’t check. So it’s always better to be safe than sorry. If my husband wasn’t with me they probably would not have let me through. I’m not sure how to fix that problem because if I was traveling with a friend and we didn’t have a leave form it could have been a nightmare!
EDIT: This post is getting a TON of views! I'm seeing a lot of questions about why all this information is needed and what to do if you're traveling alone. If you are not related to the military and want to stay in Germany longer than 90 days you have to have a visa. When you are military and arrive in Germany you don't get a German stamp in your passport. That stamp proves when you got here so officials know when your 90 days is up. Since military can obviously stay longer than 90 days we're supposed to have a visa. The military version of a visa is the SOFA stamp in your no-fee passport. The no-fee passport is only for official use, to and from the States. You are technically not supposed to travel with your no-fee BUT you should always have it on you since it is your version of a visa. When I was in Prague they were not understanding that my no-fee passport was my visa and that is why you need a copy of the soldiers orders to prove that you're stationed in Germany. Make sure those orders have ALL family members on it. I know a lot of families get orders with just the soldier on it and once they're command sponsored they get a revised version with dependents. Soldiers don't have a no-fee passport because their CAC card is their version of a visa. If you feel that will cause problems it is possible to get a no-fee passport for the soldier. I don't think it's 100% necessary to have a leave form with you but it definitely wouldn't hurt. Another problem many wives could come across is having 2 passports with different names, maiden and married. If this is the case then you should also travel with a copy of your marriage license. I know this seems so silly and a little annoying to have to remember all this but all these papers will help clear up any problems you may encounter. When traveling alone or without the soldier you definitely need to have a copy of the soldiers orders. A marriage license in this case would probably be helpful too to prove that you're married to the name on the orders. Just be prepared and patient with those in other countries who may not understand.